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#524045 - 10/19/09 03:08 PM Issues w/ Diamond Bistro....
MissHeather Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 255
Ladies - please tell me what you would do?

This item: http://diamondbistro.com/category/217/As...and-A-Asha.html

went up on DB, and I made the offer to purchase (up to $258 w/ resizing!!). I sent the funds via Paypal, and at the Seller's request, to note it as 'Living Expenses' so as not have to pay fees. So, I did and sent funds Sept 27th, 2009.
To date, I still don't have the ring -- it is still listed on DB, and the only communication I have from the Seller is if I initiate it first. She states she is out of work and a single mother, and that the jeweler had trouble with one of the prongs and what seems to me as just excuses....

One of the emails I rec'd regarding this ring was: lessw@diamondbistro.com (which I thought was odd...)

Should I ask for funds back? Do you know this Seller? Has scams happened like this before?

What are my options?

thx, Heather *very distressed

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#524051 - 10/19/09 03:26 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: MissHeather]
Socaligurl80 Offline
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Registered: 09/19/08
Posts: 1101
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. \:\( I never had a bad transaction on the DB but some people seem to have been scammed before \:\(
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#524052 - 10/19/09 03:26 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: Socaligurl80]
MissHeather Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 255
I've used DB twice before this, and had wonderful transactions... but this one has me so upset.
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#524054 - 10/19/09 03:36 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: MissHeather]
DarlingMomof3 Offline
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Registered: 10/16/06
Posts: 6888
When it comes from the "less" address that just means that she messaged you thru the DB website...like ebay does when you ask a question.

So sorry this has happened! \:\(

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#524055 - 10/19/09 03:40 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: DarlingMomof3]
MissHeather Offline
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Registered: 02/09/08
Posts: 255
Thanks DM of 3... I just sent her an email explaining that I've been more than patient, as it's been 3 weeks, with no updates or communication... and asked her to refund me.

We'll see what happens.

It's people like this that give a bad name to fairly reputable website that is very much welcomed here by BTD.

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#524057 - 10/19/09 03:42 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: MissHeather]
DarlingMomof3 Offline
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Registered: 10/16/06
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I hope you get your money back with no problem! \:\)
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#524062 - 10/19/09 03:55 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: DarlingMomof3]
MrsGotRocks Offline
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Registered: 03/27/09
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Loc: Ohio
 Originally Posted By: DarlingMomof3
I hope you get your money back with no problem! \:\)


+1 That is way too long to have to wait for a ring.
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#524064 - 10/19/09 03:59 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: MrsGotRocks]
AdaBeta27 Offline
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Registered: 08/29/06
Posts: 1354
Loc: Dreary Station, NW PA
If you paid by credit card, just do a reversal right now. If you sent money through PayPal, all you can do is open a dispute and try to get money back. I'd do it ASAP.

Go to PP Resolution Center. Open dispute, which I think you're allowed 45 days to to but do it now. Pay attention to all deadlines and in this case, I'd immediately escalate it to a claim. The seller can either toss the ring in the mail to you immediately or have a black mark on her PayPal record.


Edited by AdaBeta27 (10/19/09 04:06 PM)

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#524065 - 10/19/09 04:03 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: AdaBeta27]
Casey Moderator Offline
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Registered: 04/24/08
Posts: 7759
Loc: Oregon in the trees
"I sent the funds via Paypal, and at the Seller's request, to note it as 'Living Expenses' so as not have to pay fees".

I'd do something (credit card or paypal) asap.... by her having you note the sale as living expenses, you may have a problem proving you really bought something... I would start on the dispute or charge back immediately and make sure you keep all communication from her that proves you really bought a ring and didn't send her living expenses.

If it is still up on DB, she may be trying to run the same scam on someone else.


Edited by Casey (10/19/09 04:04 PM)

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#524078 - 10/19/09 04:31 PM Re: Issues w/ Diamond Bistro.... [Re: Casey]
KathyL94 Offline
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Registered: 03/19/08
Posts: 1122
Loc: PA
 Originally Posted By: Casey
"I sent the funds via Paypal, and at the Seller's request, to note it as 'Living Expenses' so as not have to pay fees".

I'd do something (credit card or paypal) asap.... by her having you note the sale as living expenses, you may have a problem proving you really bought something... I would start on the dispute or charge back immediately and make sure you keep all communication from her that proves you really bought a ring and didn't send her living expenses.

If it is still up on DB, she may be trying to run the same scam on someone else.

Exactly what I was thinking, I wouldn't wait any longer! Good Luck!
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